In the years I’ve spent traveling around the world, I’ve learned that some things, especially about yourself, can’t be learned at home.
Three months of traveling can feel like one year of normal life. You’ll encounter lots of crazy adventures, and experience so many fears, emotions, and relationships, all mixed together, to create a new you that you never imagined.
After five years of solo traveling, I can say that these are the nine biggest life lessons that solo travel will teach you.
There will never be a perfect time for something
If you want to make traveling your passion, you must start today and take tiny steps to make it happen. Begin by exploring a new location. This could be a new park, a new city, or even a new state.
Make a decision now, and make it a routine. Do it as often as possible.
You’ll be amazed at all the experiences you’ll have accumulated a year from now if you start today. So don’t squander your time. Follow your heart!
There’s no such thing as destiny
In my opinion, we are responsible for shaping our life. I believe that life is made up of a series of choices we create for ourselves.
If you have the determination and will, there will be plenty of opportunities in your life, and you will be able to achieve your goals. And you’ll achieve them regardless of how much money you have, the people you know, and the person you are now.
Extra baggage weighs you down
I’ve learnt that I don’t need much to be happy and comfortable after traveling with only one carry-on to so many beautiful destinations around the world.
Some possessions are merely cosmetic and, to be honest, completely useless. Having fewer possessions allows you to spend more time outside and explore the wonders of the planet.
“Everything you own must be able to fit inside one suitcase; then your mind might be free.”
CHARLES BUKOWSKI
Learning another language isn’t just a new skill, it’s a unique kind of respect
Take the time to learn short and essential foreign phrases that will aid you during your travels to help you understand the culture and differentiate yourself from the average tourist.
By studying the fundamentals of the languages of the countries you’ll be traveling, you’ll be able to better comprehend the culture and make new friends.
Capture the moment
Of course, photos and films can assist you in capturing the event. But, in my opinion, documenting the moment is more about appreciating and experiencing the views without the use of technology. This includes taking in all of your surroundings’ sounds and views. It entails inhaling new scents and storing those experiences rather than recording them on a smartphone.
As a filmmaker and visual storyteller, I must know when to put my camera down. It requires self-control and effort to simply sit back and enjoy the landscape. I’ve discovered that simply being present in the moment, you can connect your heart and mind to a place in a way that no camera or movie can ever represent.
You can make friends anywhere
Meeting people was my biggest worry as an introvert when I first started traveling the world. I was never one to initiate a discussion, and I was quite satisfied to be silent. I despise small conversation in general. However, exploring the world by myself was the best way to overcome this.
Staying at hostels is the best method for me to meet other like-minded travelers. Hostels are a great place to meet other adventurous travelers. You can strike up a conversation in the common spaces, and after a few hours, you’ll feel like you’ve known each other for years.
Getting to know the hostel employees is another excellent method to meet locals. The staff, in my opinion, is what makes the vacation experience so fantastic, and getting to know them will make your travel experience much better.
Adventure travel is all about the people you meet along the journey. They will be as significant as the sights and sounds you capture.
Plan ahead, but don’t over-plan
This is a crucial life lesson. Planning an adventure can be really stressful. You must arrange for lodging, airfare, and transportation logistics. Aside from flights and lodging, you may feel compelled to include all there is to do in the city.
I agree that using Google Maps to search for things to see and explore is a good idea, but the major takeaway here is to not plan your trip to the minute.
Some of the best sites I discovered during my years of travel were places I hadn’t planned to visit. I recommend that you always leave room in your itinerary for unexpected side trips.
“Some beautiful paths can’t be discovered without getting lost.”
EROL OZAN
If you don’t ask, 100% of the time, the answer is NO
Ask for a discount, guidance, a raise, or assistance. You may even invite someone you like to dinner. Traveling has taught me that most things in life do not fall into your lap. You have to go for what you really want, and if you don’t ask, the answer will always be no.
Nothing breaks the ice better than a smile
Last but not least, keep in mind that smiles are contagious. Although knowing a few phrases in the local language is always beneficial, nothing beats a genuine smile for better communication and making you seem more approachable.
Smiling conveys enjoyment, friendship, and thankfulness.
Follow Your Wild.
Carlos Garrido
“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched – they must be felt with the heart.”
HELEN KELLER
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